25. Two ways to live (Rom 8.5-8)

Published on 14 April 2026 at 10:57

The Bible never stops challenging comfortable assumptions. From Genesis to Revelation, one distinction cuts through every other category we use to sort people — rich or poor, educated or uneducated, male or female. The only divide that ultimately matters is between two ways of living: according to the flesh, or according to the Spirit.

The Only Divide That Matters

Romans 8:5–8 picks up where the previous passage on “no condemnation” left off. Having declared that there is no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus, Paul now zooms in on what distinguishes those who belong to Christ from those who do not. It has nothing to do with nationality, class, or moral respectability. It comes down to what controls you — your fallen nature, or the Spirit of God.

Paul uses the word “flesh” in a very specific way. He is not talking about skin and muscle, nor merely about bodily appetites like food, drink, or sex. The flesh, for Paul, is a symbol for our entire fallen, corrupt human nature — what one commentator calls “the sin-dominated self.” It describes what every human being inherits from Adam: a disposition that is fundamentally set against God.

This means that living “according to the flesh” does not only describe the person stumbling from one destructive habit to another. It describes anyone who lives life on their own terms rather than God’s — however respectable that life might look from the outside. The man who devotes decades to charitable work but has no time for God is living according to the flesh. The woman who raises her children to be honest, polite, and productive but never teaches them about Jesus Christ is living according to the flesh. Outward morality, without surrender to God, is still flesh.

The Diagnostic Question

So how can anyone know which group they belong to? Paul gives a remarkably practical diagnostic: look at what fills your mind.

Verse 5 says that those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires, while those who live according to the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. To “set your mind” on something means to make it the absorbing object of your thought, interest, purpose, and affection. It is not about the occasional thought — it is about what captivates you.

Consider some honest questions: What do you think about when your mind is idling — waiting for a bus, drifting off to sleep, standing in a queue? What gets you out of bed in the morning? When life is hard, what keeps you going? What are your overarching goals, hopes, dreams, and fears? The answers reveal what you are setting your mind on.

Most people know the experience of being distracted by worldly thoughts during prayer or Bible reading. But does it ever happen the other way around? Does a spiritual thought ever interrupt you while you are watching a film or scrolling through your phone? That reversal is a telling sign of a mind being shaped by the Spirit.

What we think about flows from who we are. Our thought patterns are not random — they are symptoms, revealing whether we are spiritually alive or spiritually dead. This is not unlike a medical diagnosis. During a disease outbreak, nothing matters more than knowing whether you carry the disease so you can act accordingly. Paul is offering exactly that kind of diagnostic for the soul.

Two Destinations: Death or Life and Peace

The stakes could not be higher. In verse 6, Paul spells out the consequences with devastating clarity: “The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace.”

Notice carefully: Paul does not say the mind of the flesh leads to death. He says it is death — a present reality, not merely a future threat. Spiritual death means separation from God. It means having no love for God, no real interest in Him, no living relationship with Him. Someone who is spiritually dead might sit in church, hear every word, and understand the language perfectly — yet it registers as meaningless noise. There is no spiritual heartbeat.

And if that present death were not sobering enough, it points toward something infinitely worse: an eternal confirmation of that separation in the judgment to come. As Paul explored earlier in Romans, the wages of sin is death — not just physical death, but the full, final weight of God’s righteous judgment.

Verse 7 explains why death is the inevitable outcome: the flesh is not merely indifferent to God — it is hostile. It does not submit to God’s law, nor can it. This hostility may be hidden beneath a calm exterior. Someone might claim total indifference to God. But tell that person that God defines right and wrong, that God determines what they may do with their body, that God demands their worship and obedience — and watch how quickly indifference turns to anger. The sinful mind hates God’s name, God’s kingdom, God’s worship, God’s word, and above all, God’s moral standards.

Life According to the Maker’s Instructions

But death is not the end of the story for anyone who is willing to hear. The contrast in verse 6 is breathtaking: “The mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace.”

Life, as Jesus described it, is life “to the full” (John 10:10). Human beings are made in the image of God, designed for fellowship with Him. When we try to live as though God is not real — ignoring the Maker’s instructions — we damage ourselves, just as surely as stuffing pizza into a DVD player will ruin it. But when the Holy Spirit brings someone from death to life, everything changes.

Spiritual ears begin to work. The voice of Christ calling through Scripture, once meaningless background noise, becomes compelling and beautiful. The glory of God visible in creation — previously unnoticed — becomes a source of wonder. Grief over sin becomes real, and so does the joy of being forgiven. Love for God, praise, repentance, obedience — all the things that were impossible for the flesh — become not only possible but desirable. This is what it means to be taken out of Adam and placed into Christ.

And then there is peace — not merely the absence of conflict, but the presence of harmony and wholeness. Peace with God, who is no longer our enemy but our friend. Peace with ourselves, as the gnawing of a guilty conscience is stilled. Peace with others, as the Spirit enables us to forgive those who hurt us and seek forgiveness from those we have hurt. Peace in the midst of hard circumstances — not the absence of storms, but a deep calm within them. As Psalm 119:165 puts it: “Great peace have those who love your law, and nothing can make them stumble.”

Every Christian can testify to this — not perfectly, but really and truly. And the best part is that the life and peace experienced now are only a foretaste of what is coming: eternal life, perfect peace, forever.

Which Group Are You In?

This is not an academic question. It is the most practical question anyone can face. Every person, right now, belongs to one group or the other. There are no other options, no middle ground, no third category.

If the flesh still governs your mind, death is both your present condition and your future destination. But as long as you are breathing, you can cross over into life. That possibility is being held out right now through the gospel of Jesus Christ. He calls every person to stop living for themselves, to stop insisting on their own way, and to submit instead to the life-giving power of the Holy Spirit.

The gospel is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes. Two ways to live — and the choice between them is the most important decision anyone will ever make.

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